Finding Kosher Food in Adelaide, South Australia

The kosher section in Coles at Burnside Village is full of junk food and nothing really useful, but it's the only store in town with a kosher section!

When traveling, finding kosher food is the number one concern most people express to us. No matter where in the world we are traveling, people ask us how we can manage to keep kosher.  Even in Australia this is true, but especially in a place like Adelaide, where the Jewish population is only 1,000 and the kosher population has lots of room to grow.

There is only one supermarket that boasts a whole kosher section, the Coles at Burnside Village, which is just a short distance away from the only Orthodox synagogue in town, the Adelaide Hebrew Congregation.  Unfortunately, I found that most of the products on the shelf were junk food.  (Akiva was excited to see that Bamba is indeed available in Adelaide!)

Imported kosher cakes and snacks from the US and Canada for sale in The Reject Shop

When I spoke to the store manager about it, he said that the store stocks every kosher item available through their Sydney supplier.  It seems that there just isn’t even much available for the supermarket to purchase!

So you would expect it to be difficult to find kosher food in Adelaide, especially processed or packaged foods, or foods imported from America.  But that’s not necessarily so! And this is true of any town or city in Australia.  There are kosher products available if only you can find them.

Imported kosher chocolate sauce OU(D) from the USA for sale in The Reject Shop

Last week, Rabbi Ben and I went to The Reject Shop in Adelaide.  I’m sure there are many, and we went to one in a small suburb just about 20 minutes outside of Adelaide city center.  So it is not the kind of place that would stock kosher products for its kosher customers.  Yet, we found many, many kosher products imported from the US and Canada for sale! They were mostly under OU or Montreal Kosher (MK) supervision, with the heckshers clearly marked.  We found everything from cake mix to pizza flavored Pringles and everything in between.  In the past, we have found this to be the case in the most unlikely sounding places across Australia, and even across the world.

Imported Tabasco Sauce from the USA

So stop into your local supermarket (or even your local Reject Shop) and you just don’t know what kosher treasures you might find!

Parshas Ki Tisa: Parshas Parah: Taking the Bull by the Horns

We have a bull living in our house.  Our Adventuring Akiva was born with the bull as his star sign (Taurus).  Although we do not believe the mazal (fate) of Jews is dictated by the stars, we do believe that certain personality traits and characteristics can be read in the stars based on when we are born.

The stars are “closer” in a way to shemayim (heaven), which may be why we look up at them and call them “the heavens.”  But as a result, when our mazal comes down to this world, we can read it first in the stars.  As Jews we definitely believe in astrology, just not as it’s practiced today by all the charlatan out there.  But also as Jews we are forbidden from having our fortunes told, for a number of reasons I won’t go into here lest I digress.  Yet, we definitely do know certain basics, such as that certain character traits tend to be associated with birth during certain Hebrew months.

So, we have a bull living in our midst.  And he really is a little bull.  Sometimes I think he exemplifies the “bull in a china shop” phrase because he has a knack for getting into and destroying everything just because he is so enthusiastic about exploring it (although maybe that’s all babies!).  Nevertheless, I often look down as him and think that as he crawls around, he even looks like a bull.  He is so solidly built!  He’s also got the persistence of a bull – no matter how many times I try to distract him or take him away from something he shouldn’t have, he will always continue to go after it, whether he has to climb over, under, around, or through something else to get to it!

But of course, bulls are also famous for something else: their anger.  In sports involving bulls, it is always their anger that is exploited.  In bullfights, red capes are flashed before him to make him angry. And there wouldn’t be much point to a rodeo if the bull wasn’t so angry about having a person sitting on him!

In the Torah, anger is equated to idol worship.  When we become angry, we are in essence coming to worship our own egos.  We become angry when things just don’t go the way we think they should.  I think that driver should let me in when I signal but instead he cuts me off – I get angry.I spend hours cleaning and then my kids run through with muddy shoes – I get angry.  I spend hours putting together an elaborate cake and then my oven goes bonkers and it burns up – I get angry.  It’s all about what I think should happen, but then doesn’t happen.  It’s all about me and my ego.

So it should come as no surprise that the Jews came to worship the Golden Calf.  In essence, they are worshipping themselves.  In fact, it is the “erev rav,” the “mixed multitude” who were the ones actually worshipping the Golden Calf.  You see, when the Jews came out of Egypt, they didn’t come alone. There were a lot of hangers-on who followed after them.  It is they whom the sages blame for the idol worship.  Yet, it isn’t that easy to simply dismiss them because the “mixed multitude” was mixed, after all – mixed with us!  We couldn’t just point and say, “Those guys over there are to blame” because they were mixed in with all the Jews.  The erev rav symbolizes something much deeper – it symbolizes that part of us known as the yetzer hara, the evil inclination, that is mixed up inside of us, and which cannot always be distinguished.  And what is the main vehicle of the yetzer hara? You guessed it – the ego!

No wonder G-d was so upset when He found us worshipping the Golden Calf.  G-d’s responses are always just, and always measure for measure.  So fitting that he would become angry when he sees the Golden Calf being worshipped just after He has revealed Himself and raised us all to the level of angels.  How quickly we rose and how quickly we fell.  We just could not withstand the lure of caving in to our own egos.

But if the Jews who stood at Sinai could not maintain control over their own egos for even 40 days and nights, despite being at the level of angels, how can we expect to do any better? The answer is, we can’t.  We are flawed, weak human beings, but we have got one thing angels haven’t got: the ability to better ourselves.  To totally conquer our egos, we must abnegate our selfish, limited wills to the ultimate and supreme Will of our Creator.  The antidote to the Golden Calf is in our hands: the Torah.  It is up to us to take the steps, one at a time, to follow it more closely.  To decide that today we will not eat that forbidden food, we will not drive this Shabbat, and we will offer to help our enemy who is struggling to carry a heavy load.  Because all of these things require us to push our own egos down and, instead, to focus on becoming closer to the Divine.

So this week, think of at least one thing you can do to turn your ego down a notch and your closeness to G-d up.  Will it be a change in what you eat? What you wear? What you say?  We all have the power to stop the erev rav within us from worshipping the Golden Calf, if only we will try.

Shabbat shalom!

Apologies for my absence and the resultant lack of d’var Torahs over the past month.  Sadly, my laptop died an untimely death (it was going for a while) and I have not yet replaced it.  Without it, I have not been able to draft posts as I normally would.  In a spate of bad luck, the battery in Rabbi Ben’s laptop died and was only replaced this week.  Hopefully now I will be able to make posts using his laptop until I can replace my own.  Anyone with friends who work for Apple who’d like to help me replace it are more than welcome to speak up now!

In the meantime, I hope everyone is well and I am looking forward to resuming my posts… starting right now!

Rebbetzin Rachel (with Adventuring Akiva on my lap… he says o9nibo87a MQ,MA78A M,AMKAB7A8AVVYU 6TKQ76N!)

Parshas Yisro: Blessing G-d for Miracles

Yesterday I encountered so many miracles I can’t even count them.

Akiva at the Myanmar (Burmese) border

It wasn’t such an extraordinary day, really.  I had to take Akiva on the long bus journey from where we are staying in Thailand to the northernmost border, then cross into Burma and come back again.  Backpacking or traveling with a baby or an infant can be challenging on an easy day.  Sitting on several busses for a total of about 10 hours (I almost wrote ‘years’ – it kind of felt like that!) with a very active infant is no joke and not my idea of a fun way to spend my day.  Not only that, but although Thai people (especially women) are usually in love with babies and always want to hold and play with them (and give me a break), I was seated next to a sourpuss who refused even to look at my adorable little cherub.  Then, to top it all off, I got caught in a rain shower with no way to cover the stroller (or myself).

But then again, it was a really fantastic day and when I finally arrived back at my guesthouse, I was smiling from ear to ear. Why?

It’s all about what miracles you see.  G-d sends us miracles constantly, but we often overlook them, calling them “nature” or “coincidence” or even “luck.” Well, my friends, let me tell you: nature was created and is controlled and maintained by G-d; coincidence simply doesn’t exist, but is G-d’s hand in the world; and luck is what happens when G-d sends something good your way.  At its core, everything is G-d’s will and if we look at it that way, we will start to see “coincidences” and “good luck” as miracles and blessings.  It’s an attitude that will create joy and gratitude in your life, which, today’s happiness gurus tell us, will make us happier people and more likely to live longer lives. Coincidence? I think not!

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You see, Akiva was in a great mood when I woke him up yesterday morning at 5 AM.  We took a tuktuk (auto-rickshaw) to the bus station and he laughed the whole time (he loves tuktuks!).  Once we got on the bus, he went right to sleep, without even nursing, and then proceeded to sleep nearly the entire bus ride to the border.  He was great when we went through security and immigration, ate a bit without complaint, and even fell asleep while I was walking around the market in Myanmar.  The goods in Myanmar were mostly poor quality and not to my taste, so I wasn’t really tempted to spend any money, which is good (I already did too much shopping in Thailand!).  The people were nice and friendly and the men selling cigarettes helped me up and down the stairs with the stroller. (It was amusing that when they tried to sell me the cigarettes, I told them Akiva was too young for them… their faces were priceless!)  I got a good seat on a van I needed to take and I had good seats on both of my busses. Akiva was very active in the van, but hardly cried at all. I ran into some Thai people I knew when I was in Chiang Rai and they played with Akiva for a few minutes and gave me a break.  I got some mango for a good price.  On my bus back, the man with the seat next to mine moved to another seat so I could have more space with the baby and once again, Akiva slept for half the bus ride.  When he was awake, he played nicely and ate some food (I think he was happy to have his own seat to play in!).  When we arrived at the bus station, I ran into two good Thai friends, who I hadn’t expected to see again before leaving, so it was a great surprise and I was really excited to see them. I trust them, so I was able to leave Akiva with them and use the bathroom (what a luxury!).  Then, on the truck back to my guesthouse, there were 2 Spanish guys, so I was able to give them some advice and, more importantly, speak some Spanish.  When I got back to the guesthouse, the women here were so excited to see us that they played with Akiva for 15 minutes or so, while I had some time to unwind.

Now, none of those things are really ‘shocking.’  G-d didn’t come split the Red Sea for me or anything.  But it made my day go more smoothly and more pleasantly.  And because I looked for them and recognized them, I saw them as miracles.  For that, I have to thank HaShem (G-d).

We get that precedent in this week’s parsha.  In fact, to our shame, it is a non-Jew who teaches us gratitude to G-d. Yisro, Moshe (Moses) Rabbeinu’s father-in-law, comes along and says, “Blessed is HaShem, Who Saved you from the hand of Egypt and Pharoah, that He Saved the people from being subjugated by the hand of Egypt.” Wow, up until then, the Jewish people hadn’t even blessed G-d for what He had done for us!  Sure, Miriam and the women sang His praise, but actually blessing Him? Outright thanking Him for His direct intervention?

Today, scientists have uncovered some evidence of the plagues in Egypt.  They have found ways to attribute them all to natural causes, such as volcanic eruptions.  G-d didn’t necessarily circumvent the laws of nature to create the plagues.  So the Jews might just have taken it somewhat for granted.  Just as we often do today, they could have called it “luck” or “coincidence.”  Yisro had to come along and cultivate an attitude of gratitude.  Yisro had to teach us to see and acknowledge the miracles.

Let’s not lose hold of this lesson.  Every day is a miracle, every day is full of blessings.  We just have to look and see them. Let’s thank G-d for everything he is doing for us, every moment of every day!

Shabbat Shalom!

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Parshas Beshalach: Facing Our Fears Head-On

Travel brings to the surface many of our fears.  Often, the mere thought of traveling scares people.  In fact, I am often told by other travelers that they have friends and family who are afraid to travel.

There are many reasons why people are scared of travel.  Maybe they have children to schlep along.  Traveling or backpacking with a baby or infant is no joke, after all! Often people are afraid of the cost. Travel is expensive.  Or they are afraid of asking their boss for time off to do something that seems (to many) so frivolous.  Perhaps travel would require them to stand up to their friends and family who are not supportive.  A friend of mine recently told me that one of her friends was afraid to travel because – wait for it – she had furniture.

No matter what you’re afraid of, travel means confronting it head-on.  Ironically, people often think that we who travel are running away from our fears. It couldn’t be further from the truth! We’re running toward our fears.  We are deliberately putting ourselves in situations where we will have to face obstacles and challenges without being able to fall back on family and friends for support.  We step outside our comfort zones.

In this week’s parsha, the Jews also need to step out of their comfort zone.  They have just left Egypt and the Egyptian army is pursuing them. They have never known any life other than that of a slave.  It would be so much easier to fly the white flag and go turn themselves in, return to the life they had known.  But that is not what G-d expects of us. G-d expects us to go above and beyond, even when it is hard, even when it is uncomfortable.  Of all the Jewish people, only one man, Nachshon ben Aminadav, was able to face his fears and walk straight into the sea, away from his enemies.  He walked in until the water was up to his ankles, his knees, his chest, his chin, and then… Only with the waves lapping over him did the sea split.

If we really step outside of our comfort zones, if we immerse ourselves in life until it feels as if we might drown, if we challenge ourselves to the utmost in order to face our fears, then G-d will reward our efforts and split our own personal sea.  G-d will provide us safe passage.  As the sages teach, we have only to open a space the size of the eye of an needle to allow G-d in and He will open it to the size of a doorway we can walk through.  But we have to take that first step. We have to open the eye of that needle.  We have to face our fears.

This week, let us all work on facing our fears, challenge ourselves to new levels of growth, and step outside of our usual comfort zones.  Click here for some advice on facing your fears. Have strength and G-d will be with you!

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